I must admit, I have a love/hate relationship with the “seduction community”. After first reading the “Game” over two years ago, immersing myself in every single piece of pickup literature, trying to meet girls by the book, succeeding, failing, learning, remembering, being happy, being disappointed, stopping, starting again, meeting the girl who i thought was different, realizing that she was the same as the others, cold streaks, hot streaks – I have crammed a LOT of personal experience into a relatively small time frame. My experience is unique to me, but yet I have lots in common with lots of other men. Sometimes I share my experience with people and they can apply it to their lives, sometimes they just look at me funny (since that is obviously not applicable to them).
But all of my knowledge comes from a mix of personal experience and variable inputs. And that’s what less knowledgeable people need – a mix of inputs from people that know what they’re talking about.
Experienced guys – go out there and dispense some advice.
Now, we’re on the internet, so it’s hard to know who is telling the truth and who is bullshitting, so I wouldn’t waste time pumping up your E-credentials, you’ll always have non believers. And yes, there is a chance your advice will fall on deaf ears. But maybe, just maybe your input and experience will make someone think, learn, and acquire that experience on their own.
Example from NYC lair.
At one particular lair meeting, during the “question and answer session”, a shy looking indian kid said something that really threw the whole meeting for a surprise:
“it was weird, she invited me to her house to hang out, i wasn’t feeling it, so i left, what does it mean when a woman invites you into her house?”.
You can imagine how people reacted. Pretty much everyone in attendance called the kid a pussy, but then one kid in the back raised his hand and said something like “you did the right thing, I mean you’re a grown man, you can tell the difference between anxiety and possible danger. You felt a bit of the 2nd, and you got the fuck out of there. A friend of mine met a girl in a restaurant a few weeks ago and woke up in an empty hotel room with his cash and credit cards missing. We all knew the girl felt a bit shady but we didnt act on it and it cost us, so congrats on acting on your survival instinct”.
Noone said a thing after, I think the kid liked that commentary. .